False Fathers

One of the unique roles of a father in your life is to provide definition, and to guard you from the wolves that want to define you.   When you separate from your father, or if he fails to perform this role, you can become susceptible to false fathers.  A false father is someone who gains power over you and takes advantage of you, and then, through this abuse defines who you are.   False fathers operate when your real father is not there to guard and define you. This danger can be especially Read more [...]

Christian Codependency

A codependent relationship is one where the love flow is when the bond is based on one person providing assistance and the other person receiving assistance.  In the world, this term is often used to refer to a relationship that involves an addict or an abuser, but what I want to talk about here is a “benevolent” or Christian form of codependency, where both people are relatively normal and trying to be positive. Christian codependency may result when someone grabs hold of the unconditional Read more [...]

Why Prophetic People Can Miss It

Some influential Christians have said prophetic people need to 100% accurate or they should be stoned.  Yet some of these same ministers have permitted false interpretations of the End Times to circulate, without calling those prophets wrong.  Last year, godly people whom I respect got very worked up about the Blood Moons and the Shemitah.  But no-one is claiming now that those they listened to are false prophets who should be stoned, even though they clearly issued a false prophecy. It's a funny Read more [...]